4 Places He Wants to Be Touched (But Doesn’t Know it Yet)

Prove you really know your way around his bod by focusing on some of his most neglected nerve endings.

His Jawline

It’s one of the most visible symbols of your guy’s manhood, yet it rarely gets attention. “When you stroke a man’s jaw, you’re subconsciously reinforcing to him that he’s masculine, which is an ego boost,” says Barbara Keesling, PhD, author of Men In Bed. And that chin stubble doesn’t just look sexy — it’s the gateway to loads of pleasure receptors that reside where his facial hair meets skin.

TOUCH IT: Gently trace the tips of your fingers across his jaw, starting at his earlobe and working your way down. Lightly stroking this area stimulates sensitive nerves in his face, says Ian Kerner, PhD, author of Passionista: The Empowered Woman’s Guide To Pleasuring A Man. Throw in a subtle dominatrix vibe by cupping your hands around his chin and staring into his eyes for a few seconds, before leaning in for a steamy kiss.

   His Forearm

There are two spots here that are primed for pleasure. Just like his jawline, the top of your guy’s forearm is extra sensitive because of the nerve-packed hair follicles, Kerner says. And the smooth underside of his arm is jammed with tense muscles just begging for a release.

TOUCH IT: Face your man and lightly place your hands around each forearm with your thumbs on top, using your fingers to lightly rub up and down the top and bottom of his arms (massage the meatiest parts but avoid the bone), recommends sex coach Amy Levine, founder of Sexedsolutions.com. Keep rubbing until you see him visibly relax…then rub some more. The combo of the stress relief and drawn-out physical contact will leave him craving a deeper connection.

His Inner Thigh

Few women actually explore a man’s inner thighs, which means he may be a bit, uh, shocked, but still really turned on when you take a maiden voyage down there. Plus, when you get your guy’s blood pumping in this area, you’re automatically upping his arousal, giving him an even harder-than-usual erection.

TOUCH IT: Gently grab his legs and spread them to expose his inner thighs. When you make contact, “always move towards his penis to guide the blood flow in that direction,” Keesling says. Start massaging his muscles with light finger strokes, upgrading to a firmer touch before licking and kissing each side with increasing frequency as you near his package.

His Lower Back

We mean really low — like, right above his crack. “This area is typically neglected because men are so sensitive about their butt, but it’s really responsive to a firm, sexy massage,” Kerner explains. Working the muscles there will feel slightly taboo to him (which is why it’s so hot), and enables you to get rid of a tension-induced stiffness so he can move his hips more freely later on.

TOUCH IT: Put his mind at ease by reassuring him that you’re just going to massage his muscles, not do anything crazy, Keesling recommends. Then straddle his legs while he’s lying on his stomach and treat him to a rubdown, starting at the bottom of his lower back and heading south to the top of his tailbone. Place the heels of your hands on either side of his spine, and stroke firmly outward toward his sides. Move your hands down an inch and repeat until you’re halfway down his butt, then move slowly back up.



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